Moments of quiet—these “gaps” in our day—don’t always arrive by chance; they’re moments we can intentionally cultivate to bring ourselves back to center.
Building this habit is like strengthening a muscle, and practicing these pauses when life feels manageable allows us to find them more easily when stress levels rise.
When we make it a daily ritual to pause—whether while waiting in line, sitting in traffic, or sipping a warm drink—we teach our nervous system to anchor into calm at will.
In these small, intentional moments, we learn to breathe deeply, unclench, and simply “be.” Over time, this practice becomes second nature, something we can rely on when things inevitably get messy.
In the midst of a mess, we can remember how it felt to find stillness in less stressful times and trust ourselves to create that calm again, even if just for a breath.